by Jonathan Hunt, ATU 757 President
Anal-intercourse is a very enjoyable experience for many men, but convincing a girlfriend to do it with them can be very challenging. Before you decide to just go-for-it when you are with her, it would be wise to discuss it with her beforehand. She may be open to some ideas, and not open to others. Wail until she has established her boundaries and comfort level before you go ahead with any wild, independent attempts.
A lot of women have tried it before, and found it to be a painful experience, and have since decided to never do it again. Because the bodily region is packed with nerve-endings, it is very sensitive; improper stimulation can result in incredible pain or mind-blowing pleasure. In order to enjoy it, you have to make sure of a few things; you have talked it over beforehand, she is comfortable, and you have taken the proper measures to make the experience pleasurable.
Some women are just uninterested due to either a bad previous experience, or they flat-out do not enjoy it. If you really want to try it with her, and she is not interested, you need to find out the cause to determine if the issue is worth pursuing. But, you must not be pushy because nobody likes being pressured into doing something that they do not want to do. If you consider yourself to be liberated in the sense that you are interested in trying new, exciting things, then you may let her know that you are open to the idea of her penetrating you as well with her fingers or a toy. Who knows? You may enjoy it as well.
To make her comfortable, you will have to get her properly aroused before doing anything new and potentially uncomfortable, which means that you will have to use lots of foreplay to set the mood. And, to ensure her satisfaction when you do go for it, use sufficient lubrication (use a lot) and begin with a finger, or an adult-toy to see how she responds before proceeding to full-on anal-intercourse. Proceed to the next level, if and only if she says that it is okay; and when you do proceed, take it slow!
She may have concerns with cleanliness as well. To address her concerns about dirtiness, insist that you clean up well beforehand, lay down throwaway sheets, and maybe consider having the entire experience in the shower. It may not be the most comfortable setting, but it is a good starting point.
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Monday, March 22, 2010
Sunday, February 28, 2010
What if You Get Off First?
by Jonathan Hunt
Every guy has had the unfortunate incident where he had his orgasm before his girlfriend had hers. It can be a very frustrating experience for both people involved, but it doesn’t have to be. There are plenty of ways to please your partner without using your erect penis. Take it from me. My wife says I have a small penis, so I have to find ways to be creative. So I find that there are lots of things you can do with your hands, mouth, or toys. Think of it as naughtier foreplay.
Oral sex is a great way to finish the job! When you perform cunnilingus on her, use your mouth and your hands- This will maximize her pleasure. Listen to the sounds she makes while you are doing it, that will let you know what she likes. Penetrate her with your fingers while you use your tongue to stimulate her clitoris.
Another way to get her off is to use sex toys such as a dildo or a vibrator. You can get creative with this one, because if you have multiple toys, you can use more than one at the same time. All the while, you can still give her head or stimulate her many other erogenous zones.
If your girlfriend is into watching adult videos, then turn one on for her, because it will heighten her state of arousal and increase her chances of achieving an orgasm. If you and your girlfriend have not included adult videos into your sex lives, then see my post below about how to get her to watch them with you. They would be a fantastic addition to your sex lives! If she’s not into watching those types of videos, then try talking dirty to her while doing some [or all] of the above suggestions. Good luck!
Thursday, January 28, 2010
The hunt for female Viagra
Drug giants have spent millions on the search to boost women's sex lives... but do we really need it? by Jonathan Hunt
When Liz Canner was offered a job making erotic videos for women, she admitted she was interested - especially as it was all for what sounded like a good cause.
The films were for a drug company called Vivus, which was developing an 'orgasm cream' to boost women's sex lives.
They needed some female-friendly erotica to test sexual responses in women before and after treatment with their drug, to find out if it worked.
Phenomenon: Doctors have been working on a pill to boost female sex drive after noticing women were asking if they could try Viagra too
But the job didn't turn out the way Liz expected. Instead, she ended up making a shocking but hilarious film of her own, Orgasm Inc, which is causing a storm in America as it sets out to expose the drug companies and doctors who are now locked in a race to produce a 'female Viagra' - a treatment that promises women a super-charged sex life in a pill.
'The whole idea of these drugs is twisted,' she reveals.
'It's not about sexual empowerment for women, it's about exploiting women and making billions in profits for drug companies.
'They're creating a false idea of what constitutes a "good" or "normal" sex life just so we can all feel abnormal and then go and buy their products.'
Orgasm Inc follows Liz on a nine year journey as she meets CEOs of drug companies, researchers, doctors, scientists and therapists - all claiming to hold the key to the ultimate female sexual experience.
One doctor in the U.S. has invented a machine he called an ' Orgasmatron', which inserts electrodes into the spine and can be operated at the touch of a button for, so it claims, an instant climax 'in the car, while you're doing housework - anywhere you like'.
The Orgasmatron started life as a fictional device in the 1968 film Barbarella and early Woody Allen movie, Sleeper.
Other companies are developing a wide range of drug treatments that work on everything from brain chemistry to hormones, delivered in a series of pills, nasal sprays, chewing gums, patches and potions.
Key to ultimate sex? The Orgasmatron started life as a fictional device in the Woody Allen movie, Sleeper
Most of these 'treatments' turn out to be largely ineffective (a woman who tries out the Orgasmatron on screen reports that it does nothing for her except make her leg twitch) or have dangerous potential side effects, including genital mutilation, depression, insomnia and even cancer.
Ever since Viagra for men launched in 1998 and became one of the biggest-selling drugs in history - it made $1.9billion for its makers, Pfizer, in 2008 alone - the race to develop a similar treatment for women was inevitable.
'Viagra brought sexual dysfunction into the open - and not just for men,' says Alan Riley, a professor of sexual medicine and one of the UK's leading authorities on the subject.
'Doctors noticed that women were asking if they could try Viagra too - or something like it. For the first time, female sexual dysfunction was being taken seriously.'
And there is no doubt that lifting the taboo around female desire helped a lot of women, especially those who do have specific physical problems, for example following menopause or hysterectomy.
For Monica from London, who's now 58, the arrival of a pill for men was a turning point in making her realise just how little there was to help women.
'I was going through the menopause, and while my doctor was sympathetic about hot flushes and mood swings, when I tried to talk about sex he just brushed me off. It was as if I should just accept that my sex life was over.'
A year later, however, sex was one of the first things a new GP asked about.
She says: 'I sat in the surgery and cried. Sex was painful and I rarely wanted to do it at all. Sexual intimacy had always been a special part of our marriage, and I missed it terribly. He prescribed HRT and that really helped. I felt like a new woman afterwards.'
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1246342/The-hunt-female-Viagra-Drug-giants-ploughing-millions-search-boost-womens-sex-lives--work-really-need-it.html#ixzz0dx3gkKsh
When Liz Canner was offered a job making erotic videos for women, she admitted she was interested - especially as it was all for what sounded like a good cause.
The films were for a drug company called Vivus, which was developing an 'orgasm cream' to boost women's sex lives.
They needed some female-friendly erotica to test sexual responses in women before and after treatment with their drug, to find out if it worked.
But the job didn't turn out the way Liz expected. Instead, she ended up making a shocking but hilarious film of her own, Orgasm Inc, which is causing a storm in America as it sets out to expose the drug companies and doctors who are now locked in a race to produce a 'female Viagra' - a treatment that promises women a super-charged sex life in a pill.
'The whole idea of these drugs is twisted,' she reveals.
'It's not about sexual empowerment for women, it's about exploiting women and making billions in profits for drug companies.
'They're creating a false idea of what constitutes a "good" or "normal" sex life just so we can all feel abnormal and then go and buy their products.'
Orgasm Inc follows Liz on a nine year journey as she meets CEOs of drug companies, researchers, doctors, scientists and therapists - all claiming to hold the key to the ultimate female sexual experience.
One doctor in the U.S. has invented a machine he called an ' Orgasmatron', which inserts electrodes into the spine and can be operated at the touch of a button for, so it claims, an instant climax 'in the car, while you're doing housework - anywhere you like'.
The Orgasmatron started life as a fictional device in the 1968 film Barbarella and early Woody Allen movie, Sleeper.
Other companies are developing a wide range of drug treatments that work on everything from brain chemistry to hormones, delivered in a series of pills, nasal sprays, chewing gums, patches and potions.
Key to ultimate sex? The Orgasmatron started life as a fictional device in the Woody Allen movie, Sleeper
Most of these 'treatments' turn out to be largely ineffective (a woman who tries out the Orgasmatron on screen reports that it does nothing for her except make her leg twitch) or have dangerous potential side effects, including genital mutilation, depression, insomnia and even cancer.
Ever since Viagra for men launched in 1998 and became one of the biggest-selling drugs in history - it made $1.9billion for its makers, Pfizer, in 2008 alone - the race to develop a similar treatment for women was inevitable.
'Viagra brought sexual dysfunction into the open - and not just for men,' says Alan Riley, a professor of sexual medicine and one of the UK's leading authorities on the subject.
'Doctors noticed that women were asking if they could try Viagra too - or something like it. For the first time, female sexual dysfunction was being taken seriously.'
And there is no doubt that lifting the taboo around female desire helped a lot of women, especially those who do have specific physical problems, for example following menopause or hysterectomy.
For Monica from London, who's now 58, the arrival of a pill for men was a turning point in making her realise just how little there was to help women.
'I was going through the menopause, and while my doctor was sympathetic about hot flushes and mood swings, when I tried to talk about sex he just brushed me off. It was as if I should just accept that my sex life was over.'
A year later, however, sex was one of the first things a new GP asked about.
She says: 'I sat in the surgery and cried. Sex was painful and I rarely wanted to do it at all. Sexual intimacy had always been a special part of our marriage, and I missed it terribly. He prescribed HRT and that really helped. I felt like a new woman afterwards.'
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1246342/The-hunt-female-Viagra-Drug-giants-ploughing-millions-search-boost-womens-sex-lives--work-really-need-it.html#ixzz0dx3gkKsh
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Live Sex Shows Can Improve the Quality of Your Life
It is now possible to watch live sex shows through live video chat services. You can get several benefits from a live sex show. This is one of the best forms of social entertainment that you can watch from the comforts of your home. But there is more to live sex chat than being a special form of entertainment. It can actually improve the quality of your life. You can enjoy the pleasures of worldly happiness simply by taking advantage of live video chat services provided by online gentlemen’s club.
Probably you are a very busy man. Your life is devoted purely to work, more work and still more work. If you continue living like this, you will find yourself aging too fast. You can also suffer from stress related disorders and diseases. That is why it is important for you to find time for your personal enjoyment. But because of your hectic schedules, sometimes it is impossible to go to a men’s club to relax and unwind. In such cases, you will find online live sex shows extremely valuable. You can access a live sex show after your working hours. Simply sit in your bedroom and enjoy the sexy show in live video chat.
Sexy live video chat therefore can be a very powerful stress reliever. You can sit back, take your favorite drink with you and start watching a live sex show online. You will certainly get the relaxation you want so you can have more energy for the next day’s work. With a live video chat, you are also not limited to watching a live sex show. You can also interact and communicate with the nude model. In other words, you can also socialize with a very beautiful lady while enjoying her nude company. You can ask her what she likes to do and request what you want from her. After your session, your stress will definitely go away.
You can also find a lasting friendship with a nude model. You can identify her as your favorite and invite her regularly to a private chat session and live sex show. You will be more comfortable with her and in turn, she would be more comfortable with you. She will be able to pleasure and relax you even without telling her what to do. All you have to do is relax in the privacy of your bedroom and allow your favorite nude model to virtually please you through live video chat. You will find out that your life will be happier thus you can improve your personal and professional relationships.
Nude live video chat services can offer more than live sex shows. Of course you will enjoy the sex show because of the emotional stimulation that it can give. But a live sex show can also unburden your from daily stress. Without leaving your home and without scheduling a trip to a regular men’s club, you will be able to enjoy the company of a gorgeous lady through live video chat.
by Jonathan Hunt ATU 757 President
Probably you are a very busy man. Your life is devoted purely to work, more work and still more work. If you continue living like this, you will find yourself aging too fast. You can also suffer from stress related disorders and diseases. That is why it is important for you to find time for your personal enjoyment. But because of your hectic schedules, sometimes it is impossible to go to a men’s club to relax and unwind. In such cases, you will find online live sex shows extremely valuable. You can access a live sex show after your working hours. Simply sit in your bedroom and enjoy the sexy show in live video chat.
Sexy live video chat therefore can be a very powerful stress reliever. You can sit back, take your favorite drink with you and start watching a live sex show online. You will certainly get the relaxation you want so you can have more energy for the next day’s work. With a live video chat, you are also not limited to watching a live sex show. You can also interact and communicate with the nude model. In other words, you can also socialize with a very beautiful lady while enjoying her nude company. You can ask her what she likes to do and request what you want from her. After your session, your stress will definitely go away.
You can also find a lasting friendship with a nude model. You can identify her as your favorite and invite her regularly to a private chat session and live sex show. You will be more comfortable with her and in turn, she would be more comfortable with you. She will be able to pleasure and relax you even without telling her what to do. All you have to do is relax in the privacy of your bedroom and allow your favorite nude model to virtually please you through live video chat. You will find out that your life will be happier thus you can improve your personal and professional relationships.
Nude live video chat services can offer more than live sex shows. Of course you will enjoy the sex show because of the emotional stimulation that it can give. But a live sex show can also unburden your from daily stress. Without leaving your home and without scheduling a trip to a regular men’s club, you will be able to enjoy the company of a gorgeous lady through live video chat.
by Jonathan Hunt ATU 757 President
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